 New
to swingers lifestyle and not really sure which direction to go in? well
hopefully at Adult contacts we can help as once things for sure when
it comes to swingers theirs little we don't know about this
One thing you have to remember is that swinging is not going to make
a poor marriage better if your having problems then swinging is NOT for
you, but if your looking for a way to spice up the old bedroom life
or maybe the marriage is getting a little slow then by introducing either
a third person (threesome) or a
couple it can and more often does bring a lot more into a relationship
But anyone new the swingers lifestyle it can
be a little scary at first not know what other swingers will expect
from you or really the best way to approach other members so here's just
a few tips to help you along.
follow these guidelines for happy swinging:
- If your
newbie's tell people & decide how far you want to go -:
trying to come over as experienced swingers won't work, if your
new and have never swung before tell people, also before you even
post your first swingers ads decide how far you want to go i.e. soft
swapping or full
swapping
- Put a good profile
up -: read what other members have posted it will
give you some idea on what to write. Don't just put "young
swinger looking for other swingers!" that's really
not going to get much attention. Make sure you tell others about yourself
and the best way is by reading what other members have posted
- Contacting others -: its really
the same as your profile put some effort into it! if your a single
guy don't just send a contact in saying "wanna meet up" and
if members ask for photos to be attached do so otherwise you'll be
sure your contact email we go straight into the bin
- Your first Meet - : make sure you know the boundaries
if its just for a chat in the local then fine but other swingers
may think your meeting up to go on somewhere else so from the outset
tell members why your meeting and what's on offer. More experience
harden swingers will normally want to go on elsewhere where as newbie
swingers will want to take things a little slower
- Single Guys
-: you know if a couple ask for couples only that's what
it means! so make sure you read the ad and when sending photos to members
try sending one of your face LOL most of us have seen what a pecker
looks like, although one shot is always welcome
- Single female swingers - : you really hold
all the strings so pick your contacts as you can bet you will be
high demand!
- Couples -: make sure you
ad is clear as to what you want, if your looking for bi or straight
contacts its a good idea to make that clear and also what you expect
from the first meet
- Photos -: a swingers profile with photos will get
10X more replies than one without so post some photos and if your a
little shy blank out your faces, but when you do post swingers
photos make sure they
are good quality and clear!
- General swingers Etiquette -:
treat others how you wish to be treated then you'll get the respect
and make life long friends
- Also - read Swingers abbreviations
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